Page 14 of Orgasmic Dirty Talk


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I have hinted at sexual trance many times and never explained it fully. I find it hard to explain. The best thing I can liken it is hypnotic trance or what Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi calls “flow state”

It is basically a mind-state women go into and can be induced by many things, but all of them involve her feeling strong emotion. The BDSM “sub-space,” or being spaced out after a huge orgasm, the girl who seems to be in another world as you pound her tight pussy… forms of sexual trance. If you have ever done something (asked her an open-ended question, called her a word she hates, caused her a lot of pain during sex, etc.) and she seemed to “snap-out” of something…she was in a sexual trance.

Dirty talk induces sexual trance via eliciting the strong emotions needed for it to happen.

A] Discover Her Trance Words

These are the words (especially her dirty words) that she uses frequently. If she says “slut hole” instead of “pussy” or “dick” instead of “cock” then those are two of her trance words. When you repeat her words back to her, you pace her ex

perience and perception of the world, letting you tap the subconscious source of her desires and fantasies.

The words you discover are the words she uses when she thinks dirty thoughts, and when she hears you use them, she will feel as though you understand her and using them almost ensures she will eagerly devour your words without any reticence.

B] Affirmations

This is getting her to say YES to your questions. The purpose is two-fold: to make the experience more real for her and to induce a light sexual trance. Her saying “YES” to your commands and questions is a way for her to convince herself that she believes what you say and takes it to be true. It is as if her mind says “I wouldn’t be saying yes, unless I believed it, so I must believe it then.”

Getting her to do double or triple affirmation begins forming a “Yes Ladder” and is even more powerful than single affirmations alone. The repetition is key for sexual trance and triple affirmations are full of repetition.

Context: You fucking her hard and rough OR you teasing her vaginal opening with the head of your penis

Single Affirmation:

You: You are my horny little slut aren’t you?”

Her: *nods*

Double:

You: You are my horny little slut aren’t you?”

Her: *nods*

You: “Tell me, let me hear you say it”

Her: ”I’m you’re horny little slut”

Triple:

You: “You are my horny little slut aren’t you?”

Her: “yessss”

You: “That wasn’t convincing. I want you to tell me that you are my horny little slut like you mean it

Her: ”I’m you’re horny little slut”

You: “Say it like you mean it. Tell me how horny you are for my cock. Tell me you are my horny little slut”

Her: ”I’m so fucking wet. I need your cock inside me…please!”

Note: don’t ask open ended questions until you get really good at talking dirty, they cause her to break her sexual concentration. When you start mastering dirty talk, use open ended questions sparingly and with a definite purpose in mind.

C] Repetition

The act of just repeating words, phrases, or commands make them become even more powerful like each multiple thrust your cock gives her. Repetition causes emphasis and amplification of certain emotions. Realize that women don’t care if you make sense during sex. They only care if you are turning them on and to what degree that occurs. Repeating your words is like thrusting…once is rarely enough to get her off.

Repeating Words Example:

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