AllFreeNovel
Share Us
Sensate Focus via Dirty Talk
Dirty talk can be used in a variety of ways but for now just use it to direct her sexual energy where you want it. For example, let’s say you want to tease her clit without even stimulating it yet. Dirty talk is great for this. As you are licking or massaging her nipples say something like,
“You can almost feel that in your clit can’t you?”
“Imagine the pleasure spreading there when I [touch/lick/kiss] your nipples.”
If you say this with anything other than 100% conviction, it will fail. If she doesn’t respect you enough sexually (AKA you’ve given her a multitude of mind-blowing sexual experiences), it will fail.
Or when you are kissing her legs, tell her to “send” or the let the feelings “travel” to her clit or vulva.
Or you can tell her to focus her attention wherever you are (instead of where you’ll end up). If you’re kissing her inner thighs, ask her (this is a question with an assertive tone, btw),
“You like it when I kiss you there, don’t you?”
And then kiss her there again to cement her focus on the pleasure you are providing. Only ask her when you see/feel her enjoying it. Also, I’m not saying to run your mouth the entire time you are “downtown,” but dirty talk is very effective when used correctly.
Let the Slow Teasing Begin…
Start with kissing her and traverse her body with lustful lips and hands. Spend lots of time at her favorite hot spots, especially if she loves breast and nipple play.
[…]
Key teasing strategy: “aim” all sensations back to her vulva and tease the surrounding area to get the attention of all of her “pleasure nerves.”
[…]
Step 2: Crafting Your First Lick So She NEEDS and Craves the Release
Now I bet even you are ready to dive in…and dive in you shall. Place some kiss and gentle love bites along both her inguinal creases
[…]
Step 3: Stalking Her Orgasm: The “One and Done” Method
Remember when I mentioned how to give her an orgasm so strong that she just wants to cuddle up and fall asleep afterwards…
BAM! Here you go.
Everything up until this point has allowed you to tease out a big juicy orgasm. Notice how you moved from her inner thighs (less sensitive) to her clitoral glans (most sensitive)…AND you took your sweet time.
You don’t need to go this slow this often because you want to give her a variety of oral ecstasy with your tongue and hands. Take your time and tease her by stimulating the less sensitive areas, as she becomes frustrated, move to a more sensitive area, always saving the clit for last. The time you take to move from a “less area” to a “more area” is a key to the big juicy orgasm.
[…]
Excerpt #2:
Using Oral Sex to Trigger Vaginal Orgasms During Intercourse
The Basics
Never mention the word “orgasm” to her at all when you begin stimulating any of these spots. The mind is a powerful tool. She has the ability to block an orgasm from happening simply by believing it is not possible.
Locating Her Vaginal Hot Spots
[…]
The Actual Technique
