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You: “You also feel it in your [clit, ass, pussy]. Spread all that pleasure to your [repeat location] like a good girl”
Be careful when you ask open ended questions, you must be leading strongly or she will snap out of sexual trance and start thinking too much which will break her focus on her pleasure.
C] Make her ask for permission to cum
When you notice her getting really close to orgasm make her ask you for permission to cum. I set this up ahead of time if I’m with a girl I know that I can consistently give orgasms to by saying something like “Don’t you dare cum without my permission.” The first time you use this, don’t let her cum the first time she asks “Can I cum?” Tease her by saying things like “Can I cum, what?” (Implying “Please”, or “Sir” or “Master”) or “No. Not yet, hold it until I tell you to cum.” Or you can tell her “You can cum when I cum”
With many women, after you do this, you can continue stimulating them and simply tell them to cum and they will. A lot of women will try to slip an orgasm in without you noticing, so you must be on your A-game with this technique.
5] Leveraging the Contrast Between Erotic Language
Boil erotic language down and you have two types: dirty and sensual/romantic. They are highly effective when used separately, but even deadlier when used as a team.
A lot of stimulation techniques like licks, thrusts, fingering, etc. cause heightened arousal due to the switch or contrast that occurs from one rhythm/speed to another. Mental arousal that occurs via the contrast created by switching from dirty to sensual is no different.
Direct dirty talk example:
“I’ve been thinking of fucking you all day. I couldn’t wait to tease my dirty little slut. You get dripping wet when you think about having my dick inside you, don’t you? Your tight pussy needs my dick, and loves to make it cum. I’m going to take your body whenever I want and have my way with you.”
Very direct sensual example:
“Damn baby, I love having my dick inside you. I feel how much you love me, [hold her close] I adore you, I would NEVER let anyone harm you. I’ll always keep you safe baby. Forever. I will fuck you forever, just the way you need it, giving you so much pleasure.”
Logic goes right out the window during sex and women who are getting good sex surely aren’t paying attention to your grammar, sentence structure or if what you said makes any sense. The two examples I provided above, don’t flow very well, but during sex, women focus on emotional intensity from you for increasing their arousal. The more emotional or dominant you are, the more her arousal increases in proportion. Some of your best erotic language “successes” will be chocked full of logical contradictions.
So don’t even worry about smooth transitions between dirty and sensual talk. She needs both and it will rarely matter how she gets them as long as you provide them both. In sexual trance, everything makes sense to her due to how it mirrors her own chaotic emotions and desires.
Example of effective contrast language:
You: “You’re so wet for me, you must have been thinking all day about how my dick feels when I first slide inside you. I’m going to fuck the shit out of my slut’s juicy pussy”
[Pick her up and throw her carefully, but forcefully onto the bed and pause to revel in her beauty]
You: “You look so sweet and innocent, so beautiful. But I know, DEEP down, inside…you want to be my nasty girl”
You [deep and hypnotic]: “I love being inside you…I love your pussy so much…this pussy is so tight, I might split you open when I ravish you”
Her: *verbally responds while playfully feigning resistance*
You: “Shut the fuck up”
(grabs her throat and fucks her even harder)( NEVER her windpipe, just her carotids)
You: “I would never hurt my sweet girl, I love my good girl too much.”
Dirty Messaging
Dirty talk doesn’t have to be limited to what you say out loud. You can use technology to assist you in giving your lady mental foreplay. Mental foreplay is the most potent arousal catalyst that exists because her mind knows exactly how she likes to be stimulated best. Love letters, dirty notes, emails, and text messages can be used to get and keep her aroused all day so that when you actually have sex, she will nearly past out in pleasure from the anticipation she’s built. Mental foreplay makes your job of arousing her almost too easy.
Sending her dirty messages versus talking dirty can be more beneficial. It’s less embarrassing/difficult for her (if she’s the shy type), you can escalate the intensity and anticipation of your messages over time, your messages are instant, and she can go back and read them over and over until she is writhing in her chair thinking about you. See how useful technology is! It allows you to plant seeds of you and your sexual power into her mind.
Dirty Love Letters
These are only for the worthy ones, if you are writing love letters to your one night stands or fuck buddies…re-think your relationship strategies. It doesn’t need to be long or poetic…just make her the focus of the letter. Get creative and write it on aged paper (burn the edges or something). The fact that you took the time to write a (dirty and/or sensual) letter in the age of internet speaks volumes about your adoration for her, in her mind. Mail it to her, or hide it in a place she checks often.
Dirty Notes
Use scrap paper or post-it notes to leave dirty messages for her to find. Stick it to her phone, in her purse, on her refrigerator, in her jewelry box, etc. At some point, she will find the note, think of you and imagine just how much you crave her body. Right there she has planted your carnal seeds of desire deep into her mind. Now she’s thinking about your cock, your touch, your smell, and how much she’s starting to become addicted to your body.
