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Dirty notes can be effectively used for all types of relationships from casual to serious.
Emails and Text Messages
They are the most heavily used in my arsenal. I mostly use emails for longer narratives I sometimes create…breaking the story of me and her into several emails. You can send long series or short series of emails describing each thing you want to do to her, like:
Email #1: The minute you walk through the door I’m going to run my hands slowly along your thighs grazing ever-so-slightly between your legs. I’m going to softly cup your face in my hands and give you a kiss that sends waves of pleasure though your body. Those work clothes will soon hit the floor.
Email #2: Your wonderfully naked body, so soft and supple. I’ll tease you by placing my lips dangerously close to your hardening nipples, letting you feel the warm air from my breath before kissing your breasts. You’ll feel my hands making their way down to that pretty and oh so hungry pussy of yours.
Email #3: I’d tease your moist opening by tracing around it with my fingers. After you moan and writhe on my fingers, I’d slowly dip them inside your wetness and make you look me
in the eyes as I thrust my fingers deep into your favorite spot. I’d get harder hearing you moan for my cock before I even take my clothes off and the thought of making you suck your juices off my fingers come to mind.
End each email with a cliffhanger…making her want more with each successive email. This is a perfect time to create sensations you want her feel. For instance you want her to have more feelings vaginally? Then you craft your emails saying all the things she will feel there when you do X. Then you simply make her email fantasies come to life by actually doing the things you said you would do…her mind will play out the email and invent the sensations. The beauty of the female mind. This little technique can be utilized in many ways: introducing her to anal, nipple orgasms, sensitizing her lips, getting her to love giving you oral. Frame everything as her pleasure and reward her for being your good girl.
With emails and texts you can be explicit as you like or just vividly describe things to her in a tame manner. Make sure you setup an email that hard to trace back to you (and her as well). Have her setup an email like [YourFirstName][email protected]
Then you can send her a text like “check *that* email for a gift”. Even this will cause her to get horny at reading it because she will learn to associate that text message with mental arousal from the previous dirty emails you sent her. Since some business use key loggers or monitoring programs, be careful with emails and stick to sending texts to her personal cell phone.
My text messages tend to be short, powerful, and full of vivid language. I start off slow and ramp it up as the day goes on. I keep me, the things I’m going to do to her, and her pleasure in response to those things at the forefront of her mind.
Increase Her Sexual Responsiveness
Dirty talk functions mainly as a way to increase her sexual responsiveness but specifically aiming for responsiveness in such a direct manner has some wonderfully powerful effects, as you will see. The theme you will notice through all of these is using dirty talk to highlight what you are doing. This has the synergistic effect of strengthening the effect of your dirty talk as well as powerfully linking all the bliss she is experiencing to you; it gets stronger the more you use it. The best sex she will ever have comes from when you create very strong emotions in her during sex. The stronger the emotion, the stronger the connection.
1] Increase your dominance and highlight it using dirty talk
Highlight your dominance using dirty talk: “You love it when I own your pleasure. It makes that pussy wet for more.” Immerse her deeply, but safely into your mental and physical strength. Let her feel it. Pull her hair, bite her, slap her ass, and tell her how much she loves when you take control.
Phrased differently: Pay attention to which of your phrases, vocal inflections, and behaviors cause a heightened response from her. Then highlight it and make it mentally stick by usin:g
? More vocal intensity
? Describe the phrase/behavior in greater detail
? Deep hypnotic repetition
? Say dirtier things along the same vein
2] Increase sexual tension using long, playfully drawn-out anticipation
Highlight it using dirty talk. Shibari or Kinbaku is very useful for this. Talk about how wonderfully frustrated she is and how only you can provide relief…the relief she craves and needs. Talk about how her hungry pussy craves your dick. I even tease a woman for a few minutes each day, making her crave having me inside her. For instance, tease her the whole week, getting progressively closer to putting yourself inside her while talking dirty in her ear then fuck her sometime that weekend. Tell her she’s not allowed to pleasure herself until you do it. Progressively tease her each day, but always pull away.
The day before you have intercourse, stick just the head of your penis inside her, tell her she doesn’t want it bad enough, and make her jack you off while getting her to imagine you fucking her. Make her confess how badly she craves your cock.
Lay on top of her while she’s masturbating you so it simulates sex as much as possible. I’ve had women have an orgasm just by stroking me while I talk dirty in their ear, no genital touching whatsoever. That is responsiveness. Own her orgasms, she wants that. Work on constantly increasing her submissiveness and responsiveness to you.
See below for more ways to utilize sexual tension
3] Tease her mercilessly
Make love to her entire body:
? Run your fingers through her hair, giving it a slight pull if the desire possesses you
? Touch her body EVERYWHERE except her favorite hot spots
? Touch her inner thighs dangerously close to her clit, but ignore it while “floating” back and forth near it with your caresses
