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Using Role-play to Ease Into Dirtier Language
Designing a role-play or leveraging one of her fantasies is a great way to introduce her to dirtier talk if you are hesitant. I wouldn’t normally recommend using role-playing as a cover like this, but I know somebody somewhere might need it. The ironic thing is that if you have never done role-play, that will be an even bigger leap than dirty talk and you would be better off suffering through the minor discomfort that comes with the exploration of unfamiliar territory.
I’m a fan of experiments. I drop a dirty talk bomb and wait for the consequences because I feel confident that I can handle them. But if you don’t feel the same, use role-playing as training wheels until you can call her your “cum slut” without internally flinching.
The best way of using the “role-play training wheels” idea is to ask her if she has any favorite erotica authors and then go research what that author writes or pick a scene to act out from one of the author’s books. If she says she doesn’t read erotica, then here is a short list of “safe” role-plays you can use to introduce her to filthier language. After all, you’re calling Susan the college girl a “cum slut” who has a “fuck hole”, not her…right?
? College girl and Professor
? Prostitute and Client
? Sex with a Stranger
? Boss and Employee
? Personal Trainer and Client
? Bad cop and Perpetrator
Really get into the role-play. Change your identities/names/voices, dress the part, get her a wig, etc.
Improve Your Voice
If your voice is to lead her mind, it needs a deep, resonant tonality. A relaxing, commanding, and deep voice lubricates your words and allows them to slip right into her mind without struggle. She will accept what you are saying with greater ease due to increased perception of you as a sexually confident man.
A squeaky or nasally voice does not convey a powerful commanding presence and your words will be deflated of any potential power they hold. You want your voice to sound smooth, deep, and rich…resonant. If you were to sound out your vowels and “hold the note” so to speak, where do you feel the physical vibration?
If you have poor resonance, you will feel the vibration in only your throat (or nose/soft palate). Try “moving” the vibration down to your chest. Place your hand there. This is what a voice that is resonant and assertive sounds like. Your chest and throat should be resonating.
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Practice feeling the difference in throat only vibration versus chest and throat vibration. Practice speaking with this new-found resonance.
Improve Your Vocabulary
Another thing is that having an extensive vocabulary and an ability to describe things in vivid detail will set you miles apart from most guys let alone making your calibration easier by being able to adapt to her mood and preferences. A larger vocabulary is very useful for narrating fantasies to her.
Try these when narrating fantasies or when your old standby’s become overused:
Verbs
Bite, suck, touch, play, caress, trail
Kiss, caress, nibble, tease, grind,
Push, pull, brush, taste, rub, stick, jam, blow
Squeeze, grab, spank, drink, thrust, plow, fondle
Slightly Filthier Words
Hard, big, wet, soft, sopping, soaking
Sweet, slippery, moist, greedy, hungry
Aching, gorgeous, lovely, hot
Tasty, juicy, firm, supple
