A second member of Signal Saints replies to Austin.
Then another known musician Dex has played with.
Then people from Grave Intentions' local circle.
Lair 47’s official page comments.
A tattoo artist from Micah's shop.
Someone who was at the wedding.
The tone shifts quickly.
Not because Austin's approval magically makes our relationship more legitimate.
But because he makes the conversation boring.
Yes, he knows us.
Yes, it's real.
No, this is not some secret scandal.
Move along.
There are still weird comments.
A few invasive questions.
One guy writes:
Dex winning at life, five people???
Before I can grab the phone, Dex answers.
relationships are not Pokémon but thank you
I take his phone.
“You lost comment privileges.”
“That's censorship.”
“Correct.”
Later that night, I update my own website.
Not with our relationship structure.
My professional site doesn't need a family tree.
But I've been thinking about what visibility actually means for me.
Under my About page, beneath the paragraph about content strategy, writing, and client work, I add:
LGBTQIA+, ENM, and kink-friendly. Inclusive work is not a niche here.
I stare at it.